Get ready for heartbreaking revelations, 90 Day Fiance fans! After three years of marriage, Kara and Guillermo Rojer have officially separated, with tensions escalating to an all-time high, forcing them to end things abruptly. For months, this fan-favorite couple has been living apart, desperately hoping their relationship might somehow recover. Their current journey, documented on Happily Ever After, exposes the brutal lows of their strained connection, revealing a marriage plagued by suspicion, lack of intimacy, and a rapidly widening emotional chasm.

The Breaking Point: Suspicions, Distance, and Divorce on the Horizon

The core of Kara and Guillermo’s marital crisis centers on Guillermo’s gnawing suspicion of Kara’s cheating. Fans have voiced their concerns, with many believing that the couple’s severe lack of intimacy is primarily due to Kara, not Guillermo. This imbalance in desire and connection has fueled the mistrust.

In a candid confession, Kara herself revealed the alarming truth: they are currently “sleeping on different beds” and have gone “many days” without even speaking to each other. This physical and emotional distance paints a grim picture of their union. While Guillermo still seems invested, expressing a clear interest in “filling the gap of misunderstanding” and mending their relationship, Kara appears far less hopeful. Her statements indicate she is “almost on the verge of considering divorce,” signaling a readiness to abandon their marriage altogether. This disparity in their willingness to fight for the relationship highlights the depth of their conflict.

Guillermo Taking Off Wedding Ring Is Bothersome!: A Public Sign of Trouble

The gravity of their separation became undeniably clear when fans made a startling observation: they “spotted Guillermo Rojer without his wedding ring for the first time.” Witnessing him make this very public move sent shockwaves through the fanbase, as it served as a stark and undeniable symbol of his current marital status. The absence of his ring was particularly impactful because, prior to this, “Nobody saw him posting any new updates with his wife.”

Instead, Guillermo’s recent social media activity has solely focused on his son. He continues to proudly share pictures and updates of Nicholas, demonstrating his commitment as a father. His “last Instagram post from Guillermo is a photo of him and Nicholas inside a zoo,” affectionately recalling how their “little one got stunned once he noticed more monkeys than he imagined.” This “cute bonding” moment with his son won fans’ hearts, but the bittersweet reality was underscored by the absence of his wedding ring. For many, his decision to go ringless “confirmed that his and Kara’s marriage is on the rocks,” solidifying the public perception that their relationship is in deep trouble.

Kara’s Ambition vs. Guillermo’s Frustration: A Marriage of Contradictions

Happily Ever After Season 9 immediately set a grim tone, highlighting Guillermo and Kara’s separation from its very first scene. The episode opens with Kara preparing for a stage performance, surrounded by dancers, revealing her decision to go to Milan to “work with a recording label.” This pursuit of her musical dreams seems to be a significant factor in their marital strain.

Kara confidently told the camera that she is “excited and driven to make the best use of her musical talent” and is “looking forward to a bright future, having already achieved fame.” She expressed a desire for Guillermo to “catch up with her performance and be encouraging,” explaining that “all she needs is positive energy from her husband.” This indicates her focus is on her career and her own personal aspirations, with an expectation that Guillermo will align with and support her path.

However, Guillermo’s perspective paints a very different picture of their relationship. In a raw and honest conversation with his friend at a restaurant, he confessed “how much he hates going to Kara’s events.” For him, the “people dancing and partying there appeared weird to his eyes,” highlighting a fundamental disconnect in their lifestyles and interests.

The emotional distance is even more stark: in another scene, Guillermo tearfully shared that he “isn’t sure if his marriage to her will even go any further.” He confirmed that for the “past three months, they have been staying in separate rooms, sleeping alone without waking up beside each other.” He also explicitly revealed that he and Kara “haven’t been intimate in three months,” a stark confirmation of the physical disconnect.

Guillermo’s attempts to bridge the gap have only led to more conflict. He “asked his family back,” suggesting he sought advice or support, but trying to “sort things out with her caused more drama and fights.” The cycle of misunderstanding is evident, as “Similar to him, Kara also made things up in her mind.” In one particularly tense moment, “One day, she was with her phone writing something, and he accused her of cheating.” This accusation, whether founded or not, led to a furious reaction from Kara, who “urged him to leave the house.”

The constant fighting, the lack of intimacy, and the stark differences in their emotional needs and life goals suggest that Kara and Guillermo’s marriage is teetering on the brink. The public display of Guillermo’s ringless finger only serves to confirm what the camera is now showing: their “Happily Ever After” is a painful struggle, and the possibility of divorce looms larger than ever. Viewers will need to stay tuned to TV Season & Spoilers for further updates on this rapidly unraveling marriage.